Land of Nod at South Coast Plaza

*This is a sponsored post on behalf of Land of Nod.  I was provided compensation.  All opinions, and I have lots of them, are mine.

land of nod front counterThe Land of Nod is now open to the public at South Coast Plaza!  I was invited to their private Grand Opening party last week to check out the store and all the amazing things it has to offer.  To start, the store is GORGEOUS!  It is styled and merchandised amazingly well and there are rad details every where you look.  Land of Nod had shared the process of painting the wall behind the counter leading up to the event on their instagram and I think it turned out so cool.  I’m trying to convince my husband that our brick fireplace needs to look like that.  If you are in Orange County, go check it out for yourself:

Land of Nod at South Coast Plaza

3333 S. Bristol St., Costa Mesa, CA  92626

3rd floor of Crystal Court in the Crate and Barrel/Anthropologie wing

me and amy at the land of nod opening partyThis was my first time using my new 30 mm lens for my new camera so I was really nervous about how the photos would come out.  And in the midst of trying to take photos and instagram the party (follow #NodinCA to see all the photos!), the photos I took pretty much make it look like there is no one else in the store.  But the party was SO fun with lots of blogging friends and local creatives.  I finally got to meet some awesome ladies in person and there was a little celebrity sight seeing to be had with Joy and Emily.  My friend Amy came with me to check out the store and was so forgiving, as always, as I chatted with people all over the store.

brass pig at land of nod storeI heard from several other guests that they wanted to also purchase some of the props used to style the store.  While not every single thing in the store might be for sale, the props give you amazing ideas on how to style your new finds.  Their attention to detail is like no other and the decor is inspiring and welcoming.

land of nod opens at south coast plazaThe store is filled with great gift ideas in a range of price points, like the Spy Kit and Presidents Puzzle (how did this not come home with me?) so it is important to know that the store is much more than just decor.  My kids love to dress up and the store has a bunch of different ways to encourage this type of imaginative play, like this bin of felt glasses in fun styles.  And they have got storage covered with tons of sizes and colors of boxes and bins to help you organize your home.  What I loved the most is getting to check out the quality in person.  Land of Nod is a name you can trust but it is still sometimes nice to hold something in your own hands and feel great about the purchase.

artist collab with the land of nodLand of Nod looks for new artists to create amazing and unique art for the store decor and products. I love that they are willing to give an unknown a chance to be part of a large project.

lately lily custom illustrationAnd I was delighted to find a custom illustration done by the artist from local fave, Lately Lily, in the goodie bag!

checking out childrens books at land of nodThe Land of Nod staff opens their arms to children.  What better way to check out the play tables than to have them set up for kid’s to color at?  The displays are created knowing that children will be shopping in the store with their parents and the store is laid out accordingly.  Amy took a break from the party to check out some of the kid’s books.

gummy bear night lightI’m sure you have heard that terribly catchy “Gummy Bear” song.  My boys love it.  So I knew when I saw these gummy bear night lights that I had to get them for them.  My youngest son keeps his as close to his bed as possible at the very corner of his bookshelf.  They REALLY love them.  After I put the batteries in, they ran around the neighborhood showing them to all the neighbor kids.

gummy bear night light and death starMy older son keeps his on top of his armoire across the room from his bed.  Or at least he starts there.  I often find him in bed with my son in the morning.  We have had trouble in the past with night lights not being bright enough.  These are awesome!  Super bright and they shine a little bit of colored light up on the ceiling above them.  I think these would also make a great gift item.

binoculars from land of nodMy older son is and has been in full spy mode for a few months now.  So I had to bring home these binoculars from the party.  He keeps them on his bedroom door so he can quickly grab them should he need to go investigate something.  You know, like the little girl’s house down the street.  These spy games provide great teaching moments for all of us…

wooden fishing gameMy youngest son is a little bit more patient during play than my older son so I knew he would love this wooden, magnetic fishing game.  It is funny to see how while this is a pretty basic toy, his video gaming experience has carried over.  We played this before he headed off to preschool this morning and every time we caught a fish, he told me what kind of fish it was ie water, fire, earth etc. like in Skylanders.  Well, except when we caught an orange fish and I asked him what type of fish that was and he thought for a second and said “orange juice.”  Maybe he doesn’t know Skylanders that well after all…

stuffed chicken at land of nodThere are a few more things I have my eye on at the store.  Luckily it is super close to my house and I can pop in and browse whenever I want.  How darling is this stuffed chicken?  I stinking love it.  You can always buy online if you do not live close to a store, but if you are in Orange County, you should definitely drop by.

wall art at land of nod costa mesaAnd while we already own a ton of artwork that we are currently framing and getting ready to hang, there is something magical about a 3-D piece of art.  It adds so much whimsy and interest to a wall.  I may be in the market for this giraffe head.

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Personal Style – Coming in to Focus

personal styleYes.  This picture is blurry.  But there is a reason I decided to use it anyway.  I think it perfectly sums up where I’m at with finding my personal style.  You remember I did a style coaching session right?  And while I came away with an end goal of how I want to dress, there is a definite transitional phase as you really get the hang of what fits in your style profile.  This photo was taken when I went to a blog networking event.  This was a real risk for me.  Although I LOVE the dress (my friend Carole gave it to me and it fit me like a glove) I haven’t worn a dress that short in years.  I know, it’s not even that short.  But it was out of my comfort zone.  But I paired it with my favorite pair of black booties and felt like I looked pretty cute.  I paired it with a black leather jacket of my husbands that has a black sweat material hood.  I felt like it perfectly fit the look that I love:  a little rock, a little tough, casual, put together.  So while this outfit worked it is still not super easy for me to put outfits together.

I still find things in my closet that do not belong.  I really need to do another round of cleaning out.  Every time I walk in, I see things, that while they are cute, they don’t belong in my closet.  This will continue to be an ongoing process.  And I find it really exciting!  It is such a great way to learn more about myself.  And while before I assessed my style, I loved fashion, it is almost more fun now when I see something that I just KNOW is my style.  So I’ll keep plugging away.  Do you have a clearly defined sense of style for yourself?

Cool Kids Book: When Miles Got Mad

When Miles Got Mad BookI have a son named Miles who gets mad.  About EVERYTHING.  He clenches his fists, growls and scowls when we go to school, run errands, mention we are going to the zoo, talk about taking a bath.  His first reaction is always anger.  Of course, he always ends up enjoying the activity.  I mean, what little kid wouldn’t have fun at the zoo?  But it is exhausting.  When I saw this book, When Miles Got Mad, I HAD to have it.  I would have bought it if it was a Matt that got mad but the fact that it was his actual name made it too perfect to pass up.  And I love anything from Ruby’s Studio.  We have Sally Simon Simmons’ Super Frustrating Day in bedtime story rotation so I knew this new book was going to be great too.

Cool Kids Book When Miles Got MadI love how they used photography and illustrations together in this book.  Not only is the book a great story about managing your anger, but it is done in a very aesthetically pleasing way too.  The story is about two brothers who are playing together and something gets broken.

Great book for kidsThe book explains that when you are angry, you turn in to a monster (although I think this monster could have been drawn a bit scarier – he’s still quite cute).  The only way to make that monster go away is to calm down and use your words.  In the end, Miles sees that his reaction was bad and he understands how to handle the situation with his brother better.

Such a cute book!  If you haven’t checked out the Ruby’s Studio books or videos you really need to.  My family loves them!

*NOT a sponsored post.  We love these books and I want you to love them too.

Smirnoff Sorbet Light Cocktails for Memorial Day and Beyond

This is a sponsored post by Smirnoff Sorbet Light.  All reviews/opinions expressed in this post are unbiased and based on my personal view.  And yes I did want my title to sound like Buzz Lightyear was saying it.

cocktail ideas for memorial day and summer barbecuesMemorial Day is this weekend!  Will you be barbecuing?  Our family, along with probably everyone else in my neighborhood, will be outside, grilling food and sipping cold drinks.  When the weather warms up, I like to try to find a new “go-to” drink.  Since this summer I will be vacationing where temperatures reach well over 100 degrees (which means I will be forced to wear a swimsuit), I need something that is delicious and refreshing but without a ton of calories or sugars.  Smirnoff sent me their new line of infused vodkas, Smirnoff Sorbet Light, to try and they are exactly what I was looking for.  They have only 78 calories per 1.5 ounce serving which makes them light so I don’t feel super guilty about having a cocktail.  The best part is they taste natural and do not have any sort of diet-y aftertaste.

memorial day barbecue ideasI love to barbecue when the weather gets warmer but the menu can get pretty boring if you aren’t careful.  It is usually just steak and corn, or at least at my house it is.  I invited a few friends over for a little lunch barbecue to try out something a little different.  My amazing friend, Amy (who used to write the most delicious food blog) put together this awesome grilled lunch to show us how we can change-up our menu.  This grilled shrimp and hearts of romaine salad was insanely good and super easy since it was paired with a store-bought cilantro dressing.  And remember shrimp grill up super fast so you won’t be stuck over the hot grill for long.  Nothing is better than sweet grilled onions, am I right?  The grilled tomato skewers are a fun take on a caprese appetizer and are sweet and juicy.  And while I have never met a loaf of bread that I didn’t like, this grilled crostini is what dreams are made of.  I will be recreating this menu on Memorial Day for sure.

mixing drinksThe Smirnoff Sorbet Light Vodkas come in three, perfect for summer flavors, Lemon, Raspberry Pomegranate and Mango Passion Fruit.

Smirnoff Sorbet Light lemon TeaI’m an iced tea lover so this black tea based cocktail had to be tried:

Smirnoff Sorbet Light Lemon Tea

1.5 oz Lemon Smirnoff Sorbet Light

3 oz Unsweetened Black Tea

.5 oz Fresh Lemon Juice

.25 oz Agave Nectar

Mix well and serve over ice.

YUM!  And totally refreshing.

summer barbecue ideasHosting a barbecue is a good time to invite friends to try something new.  Most of us get stuck in a rut and it doesn’t take much to push us out of it again.  Set out some simple recipes and ingredients and have everyone pour their own cocktails.  Chances are, they will give something new a shot.  Or maybe they’ll just have a shot.  And that is when the party gets really fun. (Please drink responsibly).

grilled dessert for memorial day and summer barbecueI’m pretty sure I have the world’s biggest sweet tooth.  If you haven’t tried grilled pound cake yet you better get on it!  Amazing!  Like Tom Cruise jumping on Oprah’s couch amazing.  And just that quick grill on the bread adds a whole new depth of flavor to a simple berries and cream dessert.  I’d like to also note that this creme fraiche had honey in it which made me want to sing love songs to it.  So simple, but SO delightful.

summer cocktails pink and orangePassion fruit is one of my favorite flavors ever so I really enjoyed the Mango Passion Fizz but the big winner was the Raspberry Lemon Punch.  Total crowd pleaser.

Smirnoff Sorbet Light Mango Passion Fizz

1.5 oz Mango Passion Fruit Smirnoff Sorbet Light

.75 oz Fresh Lemon Juice

.5 oz Agave Nectar

2 oz Club Soda

Shake up first 3 ingredients and top with Club Soda.

Smirnoff Sorbet Light Raspberry Lemon Punch

1.5 oz Raspberry Pomegranate Smirnoff Sorbet Light

4 oz Lemonade

4 raspberries muddled

Muddle 4 raspberries in a glass and add cold lemonade and Smirnoff Sorbet Light.

smirnoff sorbet light for summer barbecuesHuge thank you to Lauren and Amy for helping me out with my little lunch barbecue (Lauren did all my floral styling and Amy did all the food)  I know testing cocktails and eating delicious food can be such hard work.  Wink.  And thank you Smirnoff for introducing me to your delicious new product.  While this was a sponsored post by Smirnoff Sorbet Light all opinions are my own.

What are your favorite summer drink flavors?

A Stylish and Practical Family Home

FTC DISCLOSURE REQUIREMENT:  Cupcakes and Cutlery aims to provide unbiased editorials. However, I wish to disclose that from time to time I may receive free products or other compensation from companies for blogger reviews.pretty wicked momsYou guys!  This is why I am a blogger.  So this new reality show, Pretty Wicked Moms, is premiering June 4th on Lifetime.  And I got to see it already.  That may not sound like a big deal to you but I LOVE reality shows.  Like a lot.  And I always have to watch at least the first episode to see if I need to set it up to record every week (well, except all the dumb men’s shows like Ice Road Truckers or Swamp Loggers).  I will definitely be recording Pretty Wicked Moms.  I can’t give any details away or share a recap of the episode I saw.  Let’s just say these ladies are best frenemies.  And I’m captivated.  One thing is for sure, these ladies make being super stylish a goal.  So stylish, they wear heels at all times.  And totter after their kids in them.  To me that doesn’t seem very practical but hey, whatever works.

In that vein, Lifetime asked me to share my tips for keeping a stylish, practical home while raising a family.  This post comes at a great time as we have only been in our new home 2 weeks.  So while my home is not in the finishing stages of decorating, I have been spending a lot of my time thinking about how to show my style in my home when there are two little boys running amok.

chevron bedspreadTip 1:  LOVE everything in your home.  Or at least REALLY like it.

My new-found interest in home design started when I went through a personal style camp earlier this year.  It became clear to me that while my wardrobe should represent my design aesthetic, so should my home.  This move was the catalyst to actually make some changes.  And while nothing that I have purchased is expensive (a far cry from the homes these PWM’s – Pretty Wicked Mom’s, duh – live in…) it is the first time my style is showing through in my home.  A huge thing that just clicked for me is that you should love everything you surround yourself with.  Don’t settle.  While most of our budgets won’t allow a complete make-over, if there are things that you want, make a list and save up for them.  Change out items as you can until you love your space.

We got rid of a ton of items before we moved.  Things we had been hanging on to, just to hang on to.  But when we stripped ourselves of those things it really opened my mind to what I did want to surround myself with.  It is becoming clear that I’m a black and white stripe-aholic.  LOVE it.

bathroom towels and rugTip 2:  Take risks in the least risky places in your home.

Oh hey, more black and white stripes!  This is our master bathroom.  Pretend you don’t see the stacked moving boxes in the mirror there.  And I’d like to note that I didn’t set out to match the towels to my quilt but after much searching, I realized that nobody makes a great patterned towel except for Missoni, which are just a bit out of my price range.  While I would never have put any sort of light-colored rug in my house before with all the foot traffic and food spilling, I decided that this room was the most logical home for it.  It is probably the least used area of the house.  With my youngest child being 4 1/2, I felt like it was ok to start decorating less for the kids and more for myself.  BUT!  I’m not crazy.  This rug wouldn’t last two minutes in the front of the house.  Here I can still enjoy the rug and it’s lifespan will be significantly longer.

closet areaTip 3:  Create kid-free zones

It is ok to create areas that are off-limits to the kids.  My walk in closet is one such area.  I am looking forward to adding some art to the wall behind my dresser and love that I can leave things out on a tray and they don’t go missing.  This is a space I can go when I need to take a breath, when I don’t want to see a toy and when I want to feel like a grown up.  The kids know they are not to be in here.  Except for sometimes when I am getting ready and my youngest puts on all my cocktail rings, calls them “finger shields”, and acts like a super hero with the world’s strongest fingers.  THAT is funny stuff.  Similarly, the kids aren’t free to roam around the kitchen.  I know that is an area that I can display “nicer” items without fear of them breaking in a flying Angry Bird deluge.

kitchen matTip 4:  Shop in all departments for the best selection

Previously, I had a black kitchen mat from the kitchen mat section of our local home goods store.  Boring.  Sure I was being practical but it didn’t add anything special to the decor.  For this house I spent some time online and checked out rugs from several stores.  I came across this one from Urban Outfitters (no longer on the site but this one is similar) and decided it was just what I was looking for.  It is super bright and busy so it should hide spills well and it makes being in the kitchen more fun.  It really does.  And since we are in a rental, there are certain things we just have to deal with, like the worn cupboards and old faucet.  The rug really makes a big statement and hopefully detracts a bit from the things that could use some improvement.  May I also suggest having your grout professionally cleaned once a year?  I just had someone out to do the house and it completely changed the look of the kitchen.  It cost about $100 for the square footage of tile we have and it was TOTALLY worth it!

pop of color air plantTip 5:  Add some green and some pops of color

I have never had the inclination to have plants in my home before.  I never wanted to have yet another thing that I had to worry about.  But I’m craving green in the house right now.  I think it will make it feel more finished without setting little knick knacks everywhere that will just collect dust.  And adding little pops of color around the house are a really fun way to add interest without making a huge commitment like you would buying a crazy rug or large piece of artwork.  I will have you note that this adorable little air plant by Bird and Feather is placed up on the window ledge in my front bathroom.  I just know that if it was any lower, my boys would use it as a baseball.  See practical and stylish.

kids collection Tip 6:  Set up your kids toys as a casual display

The kid’s rooms are pretty small.  And while I would prefer all the toys to be put away, it is just not practical.  I selected some toys that “go together” to create a little collection that is set out for display on top of the dresser.  Know that anything “out” will get played with and that it will not always looks this way.  Kid’s toys SHOULD be played with but they can also look styled at the end of the day.  Clean up is easy as you just have to put them back on the dresser.  Kid’s rooms should be playful and have kid’s items but can also be a place to share age appropriate art and collectibles (on high shelves).  You can also keep the room to your style standards by choosing some rad bedding and a great rug.

Ok – now here is the trailer for Pretty Wicked Moms!  You’re welcome.

Tune in to watch parenting like you’ve never seen before with the first episode of Pretty Wicked Moms on Tuesday, June 4, at 10:00 pm ET/PT on Lifetime.

FTC DISCLOSURE REQUIREMENT:  Cupcakes and Cutlery aims to provide unbiased editorials. However, I wish to disclose that from time to time I may receive free products or other compensation from companies for blogger reviews.