I wasn’t going to have a birthday party for my 3 year old this year. You know, just save the parties for the milestone birthdays. That lasted a few months but as my son’s birthday started getting closer, ideas just kept popping in to my head. I knew it wasn’t going to have a theme per se. It was just going to be an old school birthday party. I just wanted it to be like a party from when I was growing up, with balloons, cake and confetti. I used a very simple invitation that was basic and cool. At the beginning planning stages, I only wanted the party to be black and white. That didn’t last long because apparently I love all the colors. P.S. These amazing photos, unless otherwise noted, were taken by Dez and Tam. They are super awesome and I love them.
I kept the decor pretty simple for this old fashioned style party. Of course we had to have balloons. I decided to hang the balloons to change up the usual look. I didn’t need any helium either! I tied the balloons to some black and white bakers twine and added some party blowers for a little flair. I also hung party hats from our patio cover. I added simple yarn poms to bring in more color. Party hats are a staple at birthday parties but hardly anyone keeps them on. They work much better as decor in my opinion! I wanted some garlands but didn’t want to use the paper kind. I used yarn to finger knit garlands in all kinds of colors. It was a fun look and made it feel homemade.
I kind of have a thing for yarn, can’t you tell. There are so many textures and colors to choose from and you get a lot of it for (sometimes) very cheap. I finger knitted the garlands while watching TV (I watch a lot of TV). I loved that they seemed sweater-like which made them the perfect winter garland. The are also reusable which is pretty cool! I really love how this simple happy birthday banner worked out. It looks perfect with the yarn and black chain I draped. I used a bold black and white Ikea fabric as the tablecloth and then added in color to the food table in a few different ways (2 of which you’ll see below!). I’m a big snacks person at parties. I hardly ever serve a full meal. And, yes, most of the time they are of the sweet variety. But if you look carefully to the far left of the photo there are grapes and carrots. So there. Fruit and vegetables, represent!
Every good party has confetti, right? Well, I hate messes. So the best way to get around having confetti all over my house for weeks is to keep it in a jar. It is pretty and shiny and contained. I have a few types of succulents growing in my backyard so I used some small clippings to add some life to the table. I added in some extra color by putting sequins under the dirt. I love how they turned out!But back to the food (man I jump all around in this post, don’t I!), I kept them easy and either black and white or somehow birthday cake related except for the fruits and vegetables. I probably should have chocolate dipped those too. I named the chocolate, graham cracker and sprinkled dipped marshmallows “mobile” s’mores but really aren’t all s’mores mobile? We’ll chalk that up to trying to force creative naming at a very late hour the night before the party. And the cake batter bark is really something you all should try. The recipe is from How Sweet It Is and was super easy and freaking delicious. I rounded those out with store-bought Oreos (I ain’t ever going to make a home-made version of something that can be easily purchased. That is not how I roll. And besides, how would I be able to get in all those modified chemicals if I make them at home???) And have you tried the vanilla cupcake flavored Gold Fish crackers? You. Should. Yum.
It isn’t a party without Push Cakes by Meringue Bake Shop. Kristin kept the flavors classic but made them vegan so my food allergic son could partake. What I love about her vegan options is that no one can ever tell!!! They taste just as delicious as a “normal” one.
AND cupcakes. What? I like my sweets.
This cool cake is my most favorite party idea ever. Logically, I would have shared the rest of the pictures right after this one but sometimes my brain revolts against being smart. You’ll see more of this cake in a few minutes. Just know that it is awesome and you want one.
In keeping with the “old school” party theme, I wanted to serve punch. From a punch bowl. And I did. But I didn’t get a picture of it. I like to provide a drink for the kids that can be jazzed up for the grown ups. In this case, I decided to infuse vodka with fruit to provide a “special” option for the adults. I recommend this as a party trick. People loved it! It is not necessary to use the finest vodka as you are adding flavors and it is a mix-in for the punch after all. And if you choose a fruit that is in season, your costs can be cut even more. You do need to plan ahead for this so you should give yourself about 5 days if possible.
This is the party I decided to test out my DIY confetti shooters at. Have you seen the tutorial yet? Go check it out on You Are My Fave.
I don’t generally have a lot of party games or activities for the kids at my parties. I like them to be able to play and I hate feeling like I have to follow a schedule for fun. BUT what is a traditional birthday party without Pin the Tail on the Donkey? I am beyond lucky to have a friend, Ryan, who owns the best print shop. He never makes me feel like my crazy party printing needs are over the top. This was printed out at 4′ x 4′ and was both a party game and fun focal point in an other wise boring area of the backyard.
For the tails, I was able to cut out the tail in Illustrator and shrink them down so they matched the game board. I used Glue Dots Mini Sheets. These worked perfect because they come on perforated sheets and I was able to put the Glue Dot on the tail and leave the clear paper on the other side and just pulled the clear part off when the kid was ready to take their turn.
Of course I had to jazz it up a store-bought pinata. My son kept asking for an Elmo pinata (on the day of the party. Please don’t think he was asking me for weeks and I still went ahead with my crazy customizing. No, only after did I spend the time and get frustrated with how it was turning out did he tell me he’d prefer Elmo. Thanks, kid). I don’t usually do a pinata but it totally fit my non-theme. I only put a bit of candy in, since one of my son’s has multiple food allergies, and then added some fun toys to fill it up.
I stamped plain white paper bags for the loot bags. I felt weird promoting violence amongst children for a moment but they got that it was just humor and I did not see any elbows get thrown.
I put together a really simple photo backdrop. I used white curtains that I have from Ikea and hung them on a tension rod that fit perfectly between posts in my backyard. Then I used different colors of party streamers to add some color. I had a leftover gold wreath that I found on sale at Christmas and thought it would be a nice little touch.
How ridiculously adorable is my niece?! She is wearing the latest in photo booth props. I had leftover garlands from Christmas (yeah for January birthdays!) And to keep with the confetti thread running through the party, I took extra party hats, sprayed them with adhesive and stuck confetti on them.
I found some ready-made photo booth signs at Party City and since the colors matched I decided to use them. I took out the ones that were really inappropriate and left the ones that would be funniest. How cute is my husband’s grandmother? To be fair, I did not tell her to say “cheese.”
Finally! On to the cake! You have to a smash cake at your next party! So as you can see, the cake is covered in a hard shell of chocolate. We have all the party guests sing and then let the kid go nuts with a hammer! See more examples from our Awesome 2nd birthday party (about midway through the post) and in this Ziggy Stardust inspired space party.
Once through the shell, they find a cake with the middle removed and in place is candy! Minds are blown!
I prefer to serve these instead of a big cake. I always provide cake for any adults that want it in the form of a Push Cake or cupcake but for the kids, I do this. They get SO excited about it and I love to let them just go to town! There are always so many rules and this is one time that they get to be all grabby and shove cake in their mouths by the fistful. We do this outside so clean up is a breeze.
In the past I have cut the cake in to chunks for them to grab with their hands after it has been smashed open, but this year I went with these amazing heart forks. They worked perfectly!!
Near the end of the party, my husband couldn’t contain himself any more. He had to bring out the Angry Birds game he built our sons for Christmas to share it with the other kids. They LOVED it. Almost as much as my husband.
It was a really fun to see all the kids and dads cheering when the characters fell.
And for a favor, I sent the kids off with a simple black and white sucker. And possibly diabetes.
Dez and Tam – I can’t say thank you enough to you guys. I SO appreciate that you are willing to take pictures of my parties. The memories that I get to keep from each of them mean more to me than you will ever know. It is a luxury that I know not everyone has and I am a very lucky girl to have two such talented photographers, and now friends, at my parties.
Whether you decide to throw a full on old school style birthday party or just use some of these ideas, I hope I’ve inspired you to look back and some old traditions that we can re-introduce to our kids.