Why I love sponsored posts

*The FTC has made some new rules, one of which is to place a disclaimer at the very beginning of each post that is sponsored or compensated in some way.  While this post is not sponsored, you will be seeing some changes to my blog format which may include a disclosure in this location.

cool whip campaignLet’s talk for a minute about why I love sponsored posts and will continue to do them.  There has been lots of talk recently about FTC guidelines and disclosing when you are compensated for a post.  And about how many of them that you should do so that your readers are not put off.  I have heard people say that they will not read a post if there is a disclosure at the beginning of the post but if they get to the bottom and see the disclosure they are ok with it as long as the content was authentic and didn’t seem sponsored.  As the FTC is requiring us to disclose sponsored posts at the beginning and end of the post, I wanted to share why I do sponsored posts and why I hope you will keep reading my blog.  To clarify, a sponsored post is a post in which you have been compensated in some way.  It might be in the form of money, product, services, etc.

I’ll be frank.  Sometimes I take a sponsored post because I know it will make my kid’s happy.  Talking about you, Cool Whip.

style suite at BlogherThe opportunities that blogging has brought me are mind blowing.  From being able to make a little bit of money to put back in to my blog while still being a stay-at-home-mom to my kids, to behind the scenes experiences with well-known brands and products, blogging is the reason for all of that.  There are TONS of things that I want to share with my readers that are not sponsored but there are also some crazy cool things that are sponsored that I want to share too!  Like when I had my makeup done by celebrity makeup artist, Tia Dantzler?!  The coolest.  She’s done J Hud, The President and, you know, me.  Or that Italian food tour of Los Angeles that Bertolli took me on?  You KNOW you are going to hear every detail about that day.  There is no way that I could attend every event that comes my way due to simple scheduling but I want you to know that I keep you in mind when deciding what things to go to.  Please know that I thought of you during every bite of food at my 7 course tasting dinner at Five Crowns.

hellmans mayoIf you are a long time reader, you know I am a very creative person and I really enjoy a challenge.  I make it my goal to bring you authentic content for each and every post.  I also try to be as honest as possible.  In my post for Hellman’s Mayonnaise, I was up front about not liking mayo.  At first I didn’t want to do the project because of the fact that I don’t like mayo but there were a lot of positives about that campaign.  It prompted me to make a video, which I had been wanting to do but hadn’t really had a reason to yet.  It made me have a dinner party to share the recipes with friends (who doesn’t love doing that!) and it really made me figure out a way to connect with the message I was sharing.

But I am human and we all make mistakes.  Of course there are things that I wish I wouldn’t have posted about just because someone asked me to.  But it is important to remember that new bloggers learn as they go and make mistakes along the way.  We shouldn’t judge them but encourage them and help them to learn.  I would like to think that I make much better choices in terms of what sponsored posts to do at this point.  I have come a long way from my first sponsored post for a BBQ grill cleaner…and let me just remind you that when my blog started I only talked about parties.  It was a bit of a stretch.  And guess what?  We still use and love that BBQ grill cleaner!  I get super excited when I get to try out a product before it is launched and share my opinion.

jr watkins spicesI will never share something with you that I don’t love.  I have turned down SO many paid opportunities and product reviews that are just not a good fit.  But why should I turn down money for something that I would want to share with you anyway?  For instance, I’ve just applied to be part of a TV-based campaign.  While I feel like my month of May and June are full of compensated posts, I will not turn down the chance to share with you something that my youngest son has been totally in to for the past 2 months in real life, without knowing this campaign was coming up.  And I really hope I get it because it is a perfect fit.  You guys, this month I get to do so many amazing things that I can’t wait to share with you regardless of the fact that they are sponsored for instance, throw two parties (um, hello, you know that is where it all began), attend a cool multi-faceted All American event (I also find so much inspiration in a well produced event), support a new local store (that just happens to be a store I am in love with – please remember to read Friday’s post) and watch a new reality show and tell you all about it (WORD TO YOUR MOTHER).

So I hope you will keep reading to see my experiences, see what brands I am creating content for and of course my family and my favorite things.  While this started out as a creative outlet for me, it truly has turned in to something larger, for each and every one of you.

 

Posting Schedule and Oh Crap I’m Moving

garage 3So I originally took these photos for a post I was going to write on styling.  And why I don’t do much of it.  This is just one portion of my garage.  I may or may not be a party hoarder.  I admit it.  But here is the thing.  We just found out that we will moving pretty soon.  A stressful idea for most people.  But then when you think about the amount of work just the garage is going to take, well let’s just say the stress eating has already begun.  We have been in this house for 3 years and I got super settled.  Although it might not look like it, this is pretty organized.  I know where everything is.  But nothing is easy to get to.  Hence, the lack of great props in most of my posts.  Trust me.  I have them.  See those white storage boxes?  Filled with rad vintage glassware that belonged to my grandma.  Those will all need to be bubble wrapped.  See that wood cabinet behind them?  Full of glasses, glass jars, and other items that need to be wrapped individually.

garage 1Over here we have my cake stand area.  Lot’s of breakables and odd sized items. Oh my gosh I think I just started sweating.

garage 4Oh hey, there is more glass jars.  And all most of my plates and serving dishes.  Oh and my huge ass container of straws.  And on top of the straws, cocktail paraphernalia just aching to be used.

garage 5And let’s quickly move on to the craft supplies.  At times this is organized.  But I’m super lazy and that coupled with my kid’s schedules means I generally don’t put things back where they go.  You can see the black dresser behind my excess Christmas paper.  That is full of linens.  Holy crap do I have to edit.  And this is just my garage.  So this is really a very long-winded way to say that I am cutting back on posting.  Which totally bums me out.  I’ve been working really hard to rev up my content and be super consistent.  But something has to give.  Starting next week I’m going to go to 3 times a week and if I need to will drop down to 2.  I’m sure you understand.  Do you hate moving as much as I do?

What do you think? A Survey

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Hi beloved readers.  I would LOVE it if you would take my quick 10 question survey.  As I begin new content I want to make sure I am giving you everything you want.  There is plenty of space to write out your thoughts but also some multiple choice too.  Don’t be afraid.  Tell me what you really think.  In return, I will be your best friend.  I know.  Pretty cool, right?  In all seriousness, I am super grateful to each of you that takes the time to read my little piece of the internet!  Thank you, thank you, thank you in advance!  P.S. I’ve never done one of these before so if you think my survey could use more direct questions or be different in some way, I’d love to hear that too!

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Open Love Letter to Dez and Tam Photography

Desi and Tammy and FamThere are many reasons why people get in to blogging.  For me it started out as a creative outlet when I was stuck in a job that I did not love, that did not utilize my creative talents.  But it has grown in to an avenue for meeting the most amazing people.  This family is very dear to me.  Desi and Tammy, and their two precious boys, are an awesome family.  They are endlessly supportive, extremely talented and ridiculously nice people.  Their photography and the fact that they are willing to share their passion and skill with me is something I truly treasure.  If you look through the photos taken of my family over the past 2 years, my favorites were taken by them.  They have a way of capturing my kids in states of pure joy that makes me tear up every time I see them.  Their style is casual and they do minimal editing of the photos, keeping the moment real and not over processed.  The result is beautiful treasured memories.

I am going to be sharing more of the things I love on the blog.  And I love Dez and Tam Photography.  I know I have posted about them before and I will continue to.  They are amazing at what they day and should be celebrated.  If you are looking for someone to shoot a birthday party or family portraits, these are the photographers for you!

*Desi and Tammy are very kind to me and often work for me at no charge or a discounted rate.  They did not ask me to write this post.  I am writing it because in my opinion, they are the best and I want everyone to know about them!

Image Credit: Connie M. Chung Photography

Carded at Alt Summit

Alt Summit photosAre you sick of my talking about Alt Summit yet?  Well, hang in there for a few more posts and then I promise on to new things.  If you were following along with the conference at all you know that the business cards were a BIG deal.  You wanted to meet people just to see what their cards looked like.

business cards from Alt SummitI brought TONS of cards home with me and it took me until yesterday to feel ready to go through them.  It was super fun to remember where you met the person or why you clicked with them.  There are a bunch of sites that I can’t wait to dive in to based only off the business card.  And lots of follow-up that needs to happen.  I’m slowly getting to that.

hank and hunt card fillerWe all know that Jenny from Hank and Hunt is rad.i.cle but how freaking adorable is this!  She paired a simple white letterpress card with her contact info with gold animal candle holders.  Surely I would lose a finger if I tried to do something like this.  And she made a ton of them.  I am really starting to wonder if this girl sleeps.

cool cards from Alt SummitSome were simple, some had awesome graphic design.  Some came with swag (that pen right there is my FAVE! Thanks Love Creative!) Some were done by hand and some were gorgeously printed.

cassette tapeHow adorable are these cards?!  I was so happy to finally meet these ladies.  Andrea lives about 20 minutes from me but took going to Salt Lake City to finally get together.  And Laura is in LA which seems like world’s away sometimes.  Both of these ladies and cards are totally my style and I hope I get to know them better!

you are my fave cardYou are my Fave brought it with her slide out card.  Not sure if you can read that tiny writing but it says “Hi.  I’m Melanie.  I quote Liz Lemon at…”  She’s hilarious.

oleander and palmAnd then there was this card that made me the happiest.  I love aromatherapy and at times throughout the conference I would get the most amazing waft of lavender smell.  But I could never tell where it was coming from.  Then during one session, I look over and Lauren had this “card” sachet in front of her.  I snatched it away and didn’t give it back.  Turns out her blog is awesome too, check it out!

the faux martha cardI had seen these marshmallow cards on instagram a few days before leaving for Alt and I loved the idea.  But I don’t know The Faux Martha or what she looks like.  I had been keeping my eyes out for another gal I wanted to say hello to and approached Melissa and asked if she was so and so.  She wasn’t.  Awkward.  But when I asked what her blog was and she said The Faux Martha I became visibly excited.  She handed over this pillowy cloud of a marshmallow and it made my day.  I may have traumatized her but I think this is such a cute idea for a card!  Nice meeting you Melissa!

my card for altAnd here are the cards I decided to take with me to Alt.  I had two ideas I was working with (well and Lauren too since she does most of my graphic design) but at the end, this is what I chose.  Although after being at Alt, the other idea would have been better.  But you live and you learn right!  And I’m still super happy with how these came out.  I ended up doing these myself and was pretty dang impressed with myself since my illustrator skills are remedial at best.

my business card for alt summitI wanted it to be a visual elevator pitch of my blog.  And I wanted it to have a photo of me so that people would remember who the heck I was when they got home.  But I’m also kind of a nerd and I don’t love things that aren’t standard business card size so I included that too.

my alt summit business cardAnd in case the card became separated from the outer card my contact info was on there too.  So really you can keep one for yourself and give one to a friend.  My pal Ryan printed these for me and was so great to work with as usual.  And a big thank you to my mom who put these together for me the night before I left so I didn’t have to stay up all night doing it.  You are the best!

There were so many other great cards to share but I think I will cap it off right here.  And I think I was the first person to get one of Lauren’s cards and somehow it is nowhere to be found!  It was a little party kit and it was super cute!  I don’t want to wait another year until Alt!